A TRUE LIFE STORY

So I saw someone's contact on my phone early this morning and boom. I remembered the story this sister shared with me several years back.

I wasn't even into counseling then, but mehn! I was shook to the core. So as I was saying this sister apparently met this bro when he had nothing.

She spent on him heavily, she was working then and was earning big so she did everything for him from renting of apartment to feeding. Practically everything.

Then this sister became obsessed about the guy becoming financially buoyant.

She started going to fetish places from one Alafa (Muslim Cleric) to herbalist house to know why the brother was not making headway in life and what she can do to correct it. She was going to those places with the man.

She was asked to bathe on a rock, bury earthen pots in river, carry sacrifices and so on for the brother to make it in life and she did everything withholding nothing.

She was so much in love

If she didn't tell me all this herself, I would have thought it's a home video.

They travelled as far as Republic of Benin to meet all this old women they claimed have very hot charm.

Omo, she couldn't count how many things she did for him.

Maybe the brother was not destined to be rich, maybe they had to exchange her destiny for his own because she was the one bearing the sacrifices and doing the bathing on the brother's behalf.

Then suddenly things started changing for the man. He was contesting as a local government chairman then and he won the election.

The sister was happy that finally they would be able to settle down.

Then suddenly bro began to womanize. He would bring different kinds of girls home and introduce the lady as their senior.

The Auntie said at a time she became very patient and didn't fight those girls so they began to respect her.

Maybe she thought things will change when they finally get married.

Alas! Before the sister could say "Jack Robinson" the brother started misbehaving and this time he was avoiding her.

She knew his parent then; so one day his father invited the Auntie. They called a family meeting on her.

Her father-in-law said he had a dream that the Auntie and his son are not meant for each other.

She is not his destined wife.

They said all kinds of things to this sister, and then gave her a Bible to swear that she will not do anything to harm their son.

At that point, my body was getting hot. How can you treat someone's daughter that way?

They said the Auntie is fetish and might want to harm their son if they allow her go without swearing.

The sister said she had no option than to swear with a Bible.

She said she carried the Bible and said "If I ever do anything bad to harm your son let it backfire, but if I have ever done anything good..."

Instantly, they collected the Bible from her, told her it is OK. She should go her way, their son cannot marry her.

Na so Auntie embarked on revenge mission!

She said she didn't do anything to harm him but she went back to all those herbalist and told them to reverse what she did for him.

She said she digged out all the pot she buried and went back to bathe on those rocks to reverse those things.

What she could reverse she tried to do it.

The man later got married to another woman, the Auntie said she had to attend their naming ceremony so that she won't be seen as a bad person.

The Auntie is married now but she said she found it hard to trust men. Even her husband... she has no trust for him.

All what she did really affected her financially. Her business or anything she did from then did not flourish or prosper.

Seems as if all what she did brought bad luck to her.

She said if I see the man today, his life yaf "Sha Malala" meaning it was back to square one for him.

Auntie said she did not have a hand in what later happened to him, she didn't do anything bad after she swore with Bible.

She only undid whatever she did to make him successful.

Now, Who do you think is at fault?

Lesson 

1. Man at his best is still a man. Every man is humble when he is poor. Pray for divine revelation before you court any man because you think "when you build with him you will enjoy him"

2. There is a proverb in Yoruba that "A fi fila perin ojo kan lo niyi mo; Toba dojo keji a di ologun Ika" meaning "A man that boast of killing an elephant with his cap will only receive honor for a day; He becomes the man with evil charm the following day"

DO NOT GO DIABOLICAL OR VISIT SPIRITUALISTS BECAUSE OF ANY MAN/WOMAN. You may get quick solution but you become a fetish person that cannot be trusted in the future.

3. Please build yourself while you are in a relationship/marriage; Do not put your hope in a man/woman.

4. Please do not give with the intension of receiving marriage or love. Do not give whatever you cannot part with.

This also applies to men sending a women to school, footing her bills in the name of "she will marry me when she is through"

A woman at her best is still a woman

Pray and be sure you are working by Faith backed with revelation.

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